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But NOT mine... sigh... One of my best girlfriends is getting married!!!! Her fiance called me this morning and asked me what kind of ring she wanted, purchased it today and proposed to her tonight! I am so very excited for her!!! However, Biff and I have been talking about marriage, but just recently he told me that it would be at least 2 years before we get engaged... and I don't want to rush him but it is a little discouraging. Especially since just 2 months ago I told him that if Aforementioned Friend gets engaged before me that I was gonna be really mad at him. And here we are. Of course I am not upset with him and I didn't expect them to be getting engaged so soon, but it makes me a lilttle impatient. Patience is not one of my strong points. I try to be patient, but oh, it is so hard for me. I know that waiting patiently is the best, but I fear that the oncoming wedding plans of someone so close to me will make me restless.
On a side note, one of my other best friends is moving to Cali tomoro! I will miss her so!
The wait is SO hard. B and I dated for 4 1/2 years before he proposed, and many of my friends who dated for less time than we had got engaged during that time. It was a very difficult thing to go through. Looking back now, it doesn't matter as we're married, happy, and well established (for 30 year olds :)), but I totally understand the emotions you are feeling. Keep your chin up, help the bestie plan the wedding, and during her planning process, take copious notes :P
ReplyDeleteI can see what you mean by being a little "jealous" if that's what you want to call it, but just think, after going through her wedding, you will be able to tweak all of the little problems out of your wedding that you might have seen in your friends!
ReplyDeleteBe anxious for nothing, it will come when the time is right--and that may be sooner than you expect. :)
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